Sometime we need to understand how to take
a revenge.
In social activities, we’re always connect with others. And maybe in some chance we make people mad because us. We can be victim and perpetrator. We’re all an asshole in someone story. But do you know what the best way when we feel angry from someone did to us?
Okay. Revenge is basic human feeling. We
know it since we were kids. It’s debatable. This is related with anger management and level of patience. Someone can be cruel sometime in unpredictable
scale. Feeling mad, angry because someone word or act to us. The level of
tolerance in receiving jokes or treatment is different from each others. I
wanna ask you. From 1-10, how much level your patient point at?
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Back to the topic. There are three way about revenge. First, we can forget all and have no revenge at all. Yeah I know it’s really hurt. But sometime we can’t to take revenge if we know the power is to huge to be defeat. Or maybe bulletproof of law. Let say about government policies.
Do you mad or angry with some government
policies? Disappointed in many level? But can you take a revenge? I don’t think
so. May be because our power is limited. And we don’t know how to express our
feeling. Or we’re not brave enough to take action. The same condition if we
change subject with someone. Some people believe in karma and hope the jerk to
get karma.
The second one is we take a revenge harder
than they did. Imagine they punch you once, you will punch them two, or three
time or as long as you want. With any motif and reason, you will beat them up.
I must admitted that sometime I become a jerk. I pray a bad things. But it only
happen when I was teen and verbal only. Have no bravery to punch them back.
But now after I’ve talked with my friend, I
feel I illuminated with the concept he told to me. One day I asked him, “Man,
it is okay if we take a revenge because someone hurt our feeling?”. And then he
said. “Can’t you hold for a moment? If no and you want to take a revenge, Here
I tell you..”
“Disclaimer. This is not from me, I know it
from Yusuf Mansyur. If you want to take a revenge, don’t be harder than you
accepted. As an example, if you get a punch 3 time, you punch him back 3 time.
Or if he/she said you are a fool, answer ‘you are a fool too’. Don’t say ‘You’re fool, monkey, son of a
bitch’. The point is give them as much as you get.”
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After our discussion I finally agree and
always trying to implying revenge in some condition. Not to give harder, but
try to forget. But if the situation getting worse, I take my revenge just like
I told above. I don’t know guys, but if someone can be real jerk in so many
level, I think we need to punch him back to give him a lesson. Too naive? May
be.
